If you only knew what half of what I know, a quarter even, of what is happening to your loved ones in the nursing homes in your city or town. I spent two years in three of these holes, and I have never been, or even felt so neglected.
If someone in your family is in one of these places please go the public records website for your state and read about it. These "homes" are nothing more than walls with toilets in them, and if you can't do what you need by themselves then they are being neglected.
Go after 11 p.m. when the ratio of patient/resident to staff is 15 to 1, or worse.